Buy Nothing Challenge
This post is long overdue.
It’s already almost the middle of September and I’m finally posting the August update for the buy nothing challenge.
Oh well, better late than never I suppose.
August was a big month for a few reasons:
- We bought NO baby stuff
- We gave away more things than we bought
- It was my wife’s birthday at the end of the month
- Our net worth crossed the million dollar mark
Let’s get to the details.
Not Buying Baby Stuff
Since the birth of our daughter 6 months ago, August is the first month in which we bought absolutely nothing for her.
If you recall, “baby stuff” was one of our exemptions from the challenge (along with a Naturepedic bed and the Tesla).
In the past months we had bought various baby paraphernalia such as onesies, bottles, and medicine for gas problems. Two months ago we had bought a play mat so that she can play on the floor and practice rolling over on to her stomach.
We haven’t had to buy baby stuff in August because she has everything she needs. She has enough baby clothes that fit a 6 month old. And she has the same two toys and three books that we read to her every day.
We don’t have to buy formula because she is exclusively breast feeding.
And we don’t buy diapers or baby wipes because we use reusable cloth diapers and wipes.
Babies grow fast.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she starts crawling and sitting up this month. When she starts crawling, we are going to have to buy things to help “baby proof” the house.
She will likely eat solid foods pretty soon as well. This means we will be in the market for a high chair which is one thing we’ll have to purchase. My wife feels somewhat sad knowing that one day our baby won’t be relying exclusively on her to provide nourishment and sustenance.
Giving Away More Than We Buy
You’ve heard of the saying “It’s better to give than to receive.” Well, that’s true. It’s also better to give than to buy!
We (mostly my wife) have been on a giving spree lately, especially in the month of August.
My wife is more of a minimalist than I am. She actively declutters the house frequently so that most things in our house have a place and purpose.
The Buy Nothing Project makes it easy to give away unwanted things because you know that it’s going to somebody who will actually use it.
Below is a list of things we gave away in August.
Facial peels
My wife has had these skin treatment facial chemical peels for quite some time now and has never used them. She didn’t want to risk transferring these potentially toxic chemicals to the baby via breastmilk. Since she had no intention of using them, she found them a new home.
Aluminum foil
We haven’t used aluminum foil in over a year because we store food in glass tupperware storage containers or glass mason jars instead of using aluminum foil.
In addition, we use parchment paper for cooking instead of foil. There are some health concerns about cooking/grilling/baking/heating food with aluminum foil because it can potentially leach aluminum into the food.
Aluminum exposure through ingestion has been linked to neurotoxicity and reproductive endocrine disruption. Sure, it may sound like a buncha hippie mumbo jumbo but I think the potential risks far outweigh any benefits. My wife and I are dedicated to healthy and clean living so we try to limit our exposure to environmental toxins as much as we can.
Poo-pouri toilet spray
This is a product that we received as a gift. The company claims that Poo-pouri is made without harsh chemicals or synthetic fragrances. However, my wife and I have been accustomed to an environment that that is free of any unnatural scents or fragrances due to their potential toxicity. Plus our vegan poop doesn’t really stink ;).
Bag of Tea Light Candles
We also gave this away because we haven’t use them in a a few years and because they are potentially toxic too. Most candles are made out of paraffin wax, which creates benzene (toxic AND potentially carcinogenic) when burned.
Additionally, most scented candles contain a “fragrance” that often contais toxic synthetic chemicals such phthalates, which are known endocrine disruptors.
To be safe, we actually make our own DIY, non-toxic candles :).
Infant Formula
Some how (and I’m not sure why), Enfamil knew we had a baby and sent us a box of infant formula samples. Isn’t that creepy? I blame the internet, data aggregators, and advertising. They know everything about us!
Anyway, we have no use for this since our baby is exclusively breastfeeding. So we gave it away to somebody who had a need for it.
Chopper / Slicer Device
This is also something we received as a gift but never used. A lot of times it’s just easier to chop and slice things with a simple kitchen knife. Cleaning kitchen gadgets and devices can be a real pain in the butt.
Blue Towels
As an anesthesiologist, I work in the operating room. And as an interventional pain management specialist, I perform injections and other pain management procedures. In both capacities, I am working in a sterile environment in which a lot of sterile blue towels are used and ultimately thrown away.
However, a few of them remain unused and clean. I take these home because they are excellent wash cloths.
Because we have accumulated so many of these, my wife started giving a lot of them away to people who could use them.
Glad Trash Bags
We originally received these Glad trash bags from our former roommate four years ago when we rented a shared condo. After he moved out, he left a ton of things behind. One of these things was an unopened box of trash bags.
They were never used for a few reasons. First of all, we generate very little trash (we try to be as zero waste as conveniently possible). Second, the bags have a “Fabreeze” scent; and you know how we feel about scents (toxic!). Third, I take home makeshift “trash bags” home from work.
Let me explain.
In order to perform pain management procedures and injections, we have to sterilely cover the C-arm fluoroscope (a big X-ray machine).
The sterile covers look like plastic bags. And if clean and unused, they can be used as trash bags. Here’s what they look like when they are not being used as a sterile cover.
On many occasions, these sterile covers end up not being used. So I take them home. We have a lot of these and thus we never have to buy trash bags again.
My Wife’s Birthday (And No Gifting)
August is special because my wife’s birthday falls at the end of August.
It was the first time we celebrated her birthday as a family of three.
Also, it was the first time since we’ve been married that we did not go on a trip for her birthday. Three years ago we went to Lake Arrowhead for a mountain retreat. Two years ago, we went to Peru and did the Salkantay trek Inca Trail to Machu Picchu. Last year, we traveled to Banff National Park in Alberta, Canada.
It felt weird NOT going somewhere for her birthday. Once you have a young baby, your travel options are much more limited!
Finally, it was the first year we didn’t buy each other anything for our birthdays. The only thing I actually bought her was the card above. It was cute and it has a picture of a dog that looks a lot like our cuddly canine companion.
As a minimalist, it was actually her idea to not buy each other anything. Some of our friends think it’s kinda weird. But I actually like the idea. It eliminates the pressure on ourselves to buy something just for the sake of a gift. We already have everything that we want and need.
Money Milestone: Million Dollar Net Worth
Another cool thing about August is that we reached a million dollars in net worth. This includes the appreciated value of our home.
It has always been a milestone to be a millionaire ever since I was a kid. Now that we have reached it, nothing has changed. It’s not like we are all of sudden going to loosen up the purse strings and become spendthrifts. We are still going to earn, save, and invest as much money as we can.
And we are still going to align our purchases with our values by continuing to practice conscious consumerism.
Not going to lie though. It does feel pretty cool to be a millionaire :).
Stuff We Bought
The only material thing that we actually bought was the birthday card that I purchased for $1. Trader Joe’s has really cute greeting cards for only $1!!!
Seriously, that’s the only material thing we bought.
Non-material things that we bought include:
- Gas – $45 (even though we primarily drive the Tesla, we still drive a gas-powered car every so often)
- Cable / Internet – $157 (we have been thinking about further reducing this by cutting cable)
That’s it.
Things We Didn’t Buy
Clothes
We still haven’t bought any new clothes at all this year. So if you see me walking around the convention halls of FinCon wearing raggedy old clothes, you’ll know why.
I’m kidding. My clothes are of decent quality and still look nice (or at least presentable).
However, I am entertaining the idea of buying new running shoes at some point. I have been focused more on my physical fitness lately. The running shoes that I’m currently wearing are about two years old, fairly worn down, and less able to absorb the impact of running. Buying a new pair of running shoes would help prevent injuries such as runner’s knee and shin splints. We’ll see when the time comes.
Electricity
We are still generating a surplus of electricity through our solar panels and we don’t have to pay for electricity.
Food
Outside of taxes and housing expenses, a majority of our spending goes to food. And we typically don’t spend a whole lot. In fact, our food spending in August was relatively low for us.
Restaurants ~ $50
We only went out to eat twice the entire month.
There were three occasions in which my parents and sisters took us all out for my wife’s birthday at a restaurant. But we didn’t pay. Since somebody else treated us, I don’t count it as an expense.
Additionally, we went to my wife’s parents’ house several times to eat some home cooked meals. I don’t count these meals either.
My wife’s actual birthday fell on a weekday. So we stayed in and ate a delicious home cooked meal of vegan linguine with marinara sauce and spinach.
A few days later, I cooked this yummy dish made with homemade pasta and a creamy vegan Alfredo sauce. If you’re interested, here’s the recipe. It was so good!
Groceries ~$300
Our main sources of groceries these days are:
- Costco
- Local farmer’s markets
- Community organic grocery store
We try to buy produce and food that is local, seasonal, fresh, and organic as much as possible. Not only is it healthier for us, it is also healthier for the environment as well.
The local farmer’s market is held every Saturday. We went two times in August and bought some seasonal fruits and veggies.
On first of those Saturdays, we bought an assortment of kale, lettuce, blueberries, zucchini, pluots, vegan garlic spread, and vegan tzatziki.
Two weeks later, we went back to the farmer’s market again. This time we bought some passion fruit, peaches, and large avocados. The pluots from the last time were so good that we bought them again. In case you were wondering, a plot is a cross between a plum and an apricot. Yet, somehow pluots are much sweeter and more delicious than their parent fruit.
Organic seasonal fruit from the farmer’s market tastes so good and fresh. The pluots were a perfect addition to this coconut yogurt fruit parfait hat we made.
The farmer’s market also had various food stands selling all kinds of delicious offerings. One of the food stands sold vegan Korean noodle (japchae) bowls. It was incredibly yummy.
The vegan kimchi sold at the Korean food stand was so good that we bought some in bulk. We used the kimchi as a topper for this tofu and wakame seaweed dish!
How was your August?
Dr. MB says
Whenever my children’s friends visit, they always say how relaxing our home is and all I do is declutter. Nothing fancy in my home.
My husband and I have never bought one another anything after our first Xmas when dating. Our celebrations always consist of eating out with loved ones.
I also only shop at Costco, local organic markets and the weekly Farmers market. I do NOT cook as well as you guys. I would rather do almost anything than cook.
Dr. McF, your wife sounds lovely. She seems to enjoy minimalism- it will keep life simpler with your baby. Eventually it will extend to commitments as well. Then the real power of simplicity will shine through.
drmcfrugal says
How funny! When our friends and family visit, they always mention how calming and relaxing our home is too! Just like you, we don’t have anything fancy in our home either and it is usually free of clutter.
Yes, my wife is quite lovely indeed. She is a true minimalist at heart and she keeps things simple. It definitely makes life easier 🙂
The Luxe Strategist says
Congrats on the million net worth! Can’t wait to get there myself.
I stopped buying gifts years ago, and it’s been such a relief. There used to be so much stress to get the perfect thing.
Travelling with a kid seems so hard, but we know this couple who don’t seem to let it get in the way. They flew from Europe to our wedding with their 3-month-old. They also met us in New Zealand when he was about a year old. Really respect how they do it, although it’s not for everyone. That’s one reason why I’m trying to get all the more difficult travel out of the way now.
drmcfrugal says
Thanks, Luxe! You will definitely reach millionaire status. And I suspect it will be soon 🙂
Yeah, not buying gifts is such a relief. It puts pressure on both parties. The gift giver has the pressure to buy the perfect thing. And if it’s not perfect, the receiver has the pressure of pretending to like it! 😛
As for traveling with a kid… I think it totally depends on the kid and her/his temperament and ability to sleep. It may also depend on the degree of which the parents are willing to let the baby fuss.
My parents took me and my sisters all over. They took me to Mexico City when I was 9 months old or so. And a few years later, we went to Mazatlan when my younger sister was only 5 months old! Supposedly, we were extremely easy babies who weren’t really affected by time changes, slept on the go, and didn’t fuss or cry at all. I think my parents got lucky with me and my sisters.
My baby, on the other hand, is not as easy. She has a hard time sleeping and taking naps even in the most optimal conditions (white noise, holding, rocking, seemingly everything…). I can’t imagine her being able to sleep while traveling on the go. She will get cranky. That’s why we (especially my wife) is afraid of traveling with her. That said, however, we are taking her to Orlando. It’ll be her first trip. We’ll see how it goes 🙂
Half Life Theory says
Wait! Millionaire status lol. Wow! Congratulations man! This is so awesome! Wait am i only kissing your ass now because you’re a millionaire? haha.
I think this post is now automatically blasphemy, you are rich, you should never be buying nothing lol.. You’re also vegan, drive a tesla, and apparently cook awesome healthy dishes…. i think i hate you now!
Cheers bro!
drmcfrugal says
LOL! Thanks TJ! You know what, it’s kind of funny. After becoming a little richer, I feel less and less compelled to actually buy things. Getting FU money is not only useful for our W2 9-5 bosses… it’s also applicable for life. If someone were to make a snide comment at me for not wearing luxury designer clothes I would think think: “FU, I don’t care, I’m a millionaire baby!” LOL. It gives you more of a IDGAF attitude :).
Plus as Dr. Moneyblog would say… “Luxury is really just weakness and low self esteem in disguise.”
Cody @ Dollar Habits says
Dude! Congrats on the net worth milestone. That is huge!
drmcfrugal says
Thanks Cody!
Xrayvsn says
Congratulations on crossing into the 7 figure range! That is a HUGE achievement. And you will soon find out that the next million comes at a much faster pace than the first (I LOVE it when money works for me).
Keep up the great work. Soon multimillionaire will be within your grasp
drmcfrugal says
Thanks Xrayvsn! It feels great knowing that my money employees are working hard to build my financial dam! 😉
Lily | The Frugal Gene says
Your eating out budget puts me to shame…$50? That can’t feed me *once*
“On many occasions, these sterile covers end up not being used. So I take them home. We have a lot of these and thus we never have to buy trash bags again.”
Ohhhhhhhhh my god thats so smart and I’m jealous. Oh my god. Ohhh my god, can I get over this? Free trash bags for life? No I can’t. It grinds me buying bags for trash arghh!! My Airbnb guests leave tons of trash and I try to reuse them but sometimes it’s just not possible. Then there’s shopping for the fit, size, the durability, the cost, ugh….we have like 4 different size trash cans because I didn’t think things through while shopping. :\
OK besides first first world problems…CONGRATS on the first milliiiiiiiiii. It’s gonna gooo sooooo fast from here.
Your house always looks so nice and clean – oh my goodness.
drmcfrugal says
LOL!!! I think having a baby really put a dent on our motivation to eating out!
Me to my wife: “Want to go out to eat?”
Wife: “Nah, too tired. Plus the baby has to nap soon.”
Me: “Okay, we’ll just eat leftovers from yesterday.”
Wife: “Good idea. Save some money.”
I’m glad you like my trash bag repurposing. We haven’t bought trash bags in such a long time… I forgot how ridiculous it is to buy bags for trash. And for 4 different sizes… Yikes!
Thanks for the congrats. Yeah, I hear that after the first million it grows so fast!
Millionaire Doc says
Congrats on the first mil. Here’s to many more.
Damn, you guys eat really healthy. That pasta looks good.
drmcfrugal says
Thanks, M.D.! LOL, yeah… we try to eat as healthy as we can without getting too overly obsessive about it 🙂
Gasem says
My big gift splurge was a ring commemorating my children’s birth stones each stone surrounded by diamonds. I included the kids in the “surprise” so they were part of the design of the gift for Mommy. As far as other gifts we moved on to giving people certificates for charitable purchases we made, like breeding pairs for people, or a chicken coop with chicks. The breeding pairs provide a herd for micro commerce, but the deal is every year a breeding pair needs to be given away to start another families herd. chickens provide eggs and micro commerce for others to start their own flocks. Congrats on being a millionaire!
drmcfrugal says
Wow, that big gift splurge is a terrific idea. It might be something I’ll give to my wife in a years. I also like the idea of giving people certificates for charitable purchases too. Very thoughtful. We don’t have much land out here in urban California. But if we moved to somewhere more rural, my wife and I would definitely consider rescuing and raising animals. The deal of giving away a breeding pair to start new family herds is wonderful, a perpetual gift that keeps on giving! Btw, the description of you home in FL sounds amazing with the orange blossoms, blueberries, strawberries, goats, chickens, bunnies and turtles… for a city-dweller, that life sounds so beautifully idyllic!
Justin says
Funny you use the blue surgical clothes at home. We received several from my aunt the RN probably 10-20 years ago. Very good for towels! Most of ours are worn out and tossed away by now though.
drmcfrugal says
Hey Justin, thanks for stopping by! Yes, those blue surgical cloth towels are so versatile. We use them a lot for wiping down counters. You’re right they tend to wear out fast, but getting a few years of use out of them is pretty good!
Sarah says
You did really well with your buy nothing challenge. My husband and I have done no spend months a few times over the last year and they have been very successful, except one but that’s okay. We plan to do another one in November. Congrats on reaching a million, that’s an amazing accomplishment.
drmcfrugal says
Hi Sarah, thanks for stopping by! No spend months are great and I’m glad you’ve been successful in them 😀
Financial Verdict says
Congrats on the million dollar net worth and a successful month on your buy nothing challenge.
We also had formula show up to our door – before my wife was even pregnant but when we were trying. Super creepy.
drmcfrugal says
Thanks! Yeah I still don’t know how these industries know so much about us!
D says
I always cringe a little when exclusive breastfeeding is put in the “save money” category based on what formula costs. As a working person, when i exclusively breastfed, it was HOURS AND HOURS of my time, including pumping at work, which meant seeing fewer patients and doing less research. I’m but a humbly paid fellow, but when i calculate my hourly pay-rate vs the cost of formula, it is an order of magnitude difference. The time I spend nursing of course is immeasurable in terms of bonding and time spent with my child. But pretending that breastfeeding doesn’t cost some*one really undermines the value of women’s time and bodily labor. It is not an easy or obvious calculation is all I am trying to say. In any case, i enjoy your blog very much, carry on.
drmcfrugal says
I agree whole heartedly with you. Breastfeeding does indeed cost the value of a woman’s time and definitely body labor. And many times it is not comfortable at all. Unfortunately for my wife, our baby sometimes plays games by latching and unlatching. It can be frustrating for my wife. Additionally, my wife is finding it hard to lose that extra 5-10 pounds of baby fat that mothers tend to hold on to for the purpose of breastfeeding. It’s not important at all for mothers to return to their pre-baby weight. (Unfortunately society and media put a lot of pressure on mothers to do so, however). But I bring it up only because it is another non monetary factor that could be considered a cost (at least an opportunity cost) that results from exclusively breastfeeding.
Thanks again for stopping by, D. Best of luck as you finish your fellowship. And enjoy the little one 😀