It’s astounding to me how much the average American spends on food. According to the USDA, the average couple spends an average of $625 a month on groceries. That equates to $7,500 per year. And that’s just for groceries! It is also estimated that the average couple spends about 40% (or about $5,000 per year) of their overall food budget going out to eat at restaurants. Doing the math, that means the average couple is spending $12,500 a year on food!
Doesn’t that sound like a lot to you? It does to me. The median household income in the United States is $56,516. Assuming close to a 15% effective tax, the median household will take home about $48,000 after taxes. Is the average household really spending more than 25% of their disposable income on food? It must be. And I’m sure the average American isn’t shopping at Whole Foods for expensive organic groceries or eating at fancy restaurants either. I’m guessing that a lot of people are spending a lot of their money on heavily processed foods, unhealthy ready-made microwaveable dinners, and going out to eat at fast food restaurants. Considering all of this, it’s no wonder the average American finds it difficult to save money and is unknowingly eating their way to longterm sickness and chronic diseases of lifestyle.
We are not like most Americans
I am not ashamed to admit that my wife and I eat really well.
We eat mostly at home, usually organic, and almost exclusively minimally processed plant-based foods.
Many people falsely assume that this healthy way of eating is prohibitively expensive. Not so. We are able to do it easily on a grocery budget of less than $200 per month.
And it’s not like we go out to eat a lot either. Depending on the month (and its associated occasions like birthdays and holidays), we only go out to eat four to eight times a month. And when we do go out, we are not going to Michelin-star, fine dining restaurants. (Side note: there is nothing wrong with fine dining experiences once in a rare while, we just don’t value those experiences as much anymore.) In general, we are spending about $30-40 (or $15-20 per person), all-in with tax and tip, each time we do go out to eat.
It’s important to note that I don’t count the special occasions in which we treat others (family, friends, etc.) at a restaurant. For example, my wife and I helped treat twelve of her high school students to lunch for celebrating their achievements in the annual Mock Trial competition. The bill was split evenly between my wife and another coach, and our portion came out to be around $160. Obviously, I would only count the portion of the bill that accounts for what we ate. And yes, it was still under $40 for the two of us.
Spend less, eat well, live more
All in all, we spend an average of about $300 per month eating out, $200 a month for groceries. This comes out to a total of about $500 per month for food. It’s not like we are specifically trying to spend within this budget. These numbers are a result of us curiously analyzing our average spending habits and expenses from last year.
It was only this year that we started tracking our expenses in real time after making a few New Year’s resolutions. I did this to keep lifestyle creep in check and to see how having a baby impacts our expenses.
I can best describe our diet as a whole food, minimally processed, Blue Zone inspired, plant-based diet. In my opinion, we are not only saving money now, we are also saving a lot of money in the long run. I am convinced that eating this way will improve our quality of life (so far we feel great!), extend our life span (more years to enjoy retirement and our future life with our adult kids), and decrease our chances of developing chronic diseases of lifestyle (which will save us money by lowering the cost of future medical expenses).
If you are curious, here’s how we do it…
1) Don’t think of restaurants as a source of food
I stole this line from Mr. Money Mustache in his post “Wealth Advice that Should be Obvious“. It’s so applicable. Restaurants are expensive. Period.
Even fast food is expensive. A meal with a burger, fries, and drink will easily cost $6. Even if a person just ate two items from the dollar menu, it’s still $2 spent on high calorie junk with little to no nutritional value that is likely ridden with chemicals and additives. These chemicals are often addicting, and the sugar, fat, and salt make it too easy for people to crave and eat more food. At home, my wife and I can easily fix up (within 10 minutes) a meal that costs us less than $2 a person. And I can guarantee that it’s much more nutritious than the food at a fast food restaurant.
Sit-down restaurants can be just as bad. The truth is, you don’t really know what’s in your food if you eat at a restaurant. There is a lot of added sugar, salt, oil, and unhealthy additives that are hidden in restaurant food. Why do you think it tastes so good? 😉
Restaurants are expensive because the overhead and all employees (from the supply chain, distribution, and production) have to get paid. It’s like Mr. Money Mustache says: “Look at me, I am renting this huge venue and paying an army of servants to prepare food for me!” This is in essence what we are doing when we eat at a restaurant.
When we do eat out, we make it a treat and reserve eating at restaurants for carefully planned social experiences with good friends and family. Sometimes it’s just the two of us if it’s a “date night” or a special occasion.
2) Don’t eat TV dinners
It’s great to avoid restaurants, but it’s also important to avoid eating prepackaged, heavily processed, “TV dinner” meals. Just like restaurants, these meals of convenience are expensive for what they are and provide little nutritional value. If it has more than ten ingredients and most of them are chemicals whose names that are difficult to pronounce, it’s likely not healthy for you.
3) Eat simple, home cooked meals with few ingredients
Just keep it simple. The fewer the ingredients, the less we have to buy.
Baked sweet potatoes, cooked beans, and steamed vegetables like broccoli and carrots are easy to prepare at home. To spice it up, there are plenty of food bloggers who publish easy to follow recipes for simple and delicious meals with 10 or fewer ingredients. My favorites are Minimalist Baker and The Vegan 8.
4) Drink water and avoid drinking your calories
Clean water is a cheap and healthy drink. It makes you feel fuller with zero calories, contains no additives, and helps flush toxins while hydrating the body.
A $4 Frappuccino is not much more than cup of liquid sugar (and fat) prepared in a nice package. Sorry, but that’s the truth. The same can be said about other drinks, such as soft drinks. These liquid calories are necessary and often leave us slightly poorer and unhealthier, especially when consumed on a daily basis.
My wife and I primarily drink filtered water from our home and also try to avoid plastic water bottles.
5) Eat mostly plants
In general, vegetables, fruits, beans, and whole grains are cheaper (and healthier) than animal-based foods such as meat and dairy. For various reasons (not going delineate all of them in this post), we choose to eat exclusively plants.
6) Take inventory and make a grocery shopping list
Before going to the grocery store, we always take inventory of what we already have and what we actually need. To do this effectively, we store all of our dried goods and a lot of our food in glass jars. Not only is it easy to see what we have, it is a cleaner, more environmentally-friendly and non-toxic way to store food (as opposed to using plastic). The upfront cost of buying these jars is not expensive, and it’s worth it in the long run.
7) Plan meals and buy only what you need for the week
Always have a plan when you go to the grocery store. And don’t shop when you’re hungry either. In addition to taking an inventory, it’s useful to plan your meals for the week so that you only buy what you need. Buying more food than you need can lead to expired food that eventually gets thrown out as well as a lot of wasted money. Food wastage is one of my pet peeves.
8) Load up on cheap staples and common items in bulk
Dried beans, starchy vegetables (potatoes, sweet potatoes, and carrots), and whole grains (oatmeal, barley, rice, and quinoa), and nuts are extremely cheap and they can be stored for a long time. They are great staples for any meal. I buy frozen organic blueberries and cherries in bulk at Costco to save money on berries.
9) Try to buy produce in season and on sale
This is self explanatory. Produce in season is usually on sale because of the abundance in supply. In general, food also tastes better when it’s in season as well.
If you are fortunate enough to live near a farmer’s market, these are great places to get deals on food. Often (not always) the food is cheaper than in the grocery stores. And sometimes you can score great discounted deals when you arrive as they closing shop and looking to offload their inventory!
10) You don’t have to buy organic (but we generally do)
Organic produce and foods can be expensive and it is debatable whether the potential health benefits outweigh the cost. Are there long term health hazards to eating GMO foods? It’s possible, but there is nothing conclusive that suggests it. Are there more pesticides on non-organic food? Probably. But organic produce has be shown to also contain pesticides. Because it would be difficult to conduct a large scale study comparing the long term health implications of organic food versus non-organic food, we may never if organic food is actually better for you.
In general, we try to buy certain produce organic just to be safe. This includes fruits and vegetables in which we eat the skin/peel, such as apples, grapes, and berries. Nevertheless, we still wash everything thoroughly to decrease our cumulative pesticide load from the residue on produce.
Final thoughts
There is this misconception that healthy food is prohibitively expensive. In reality, it doesn’t have to be. My wife and I do it with a reasonable budget of around $500 and we still eat out on occasions. I assure you, we are not depriving ourselves; we eat extremely well. In fact, we could even reduce our spending to $100 a month if we totally didn’t eat out, didn’t buy slightly more expensive organic produce, and just ate oatmeal, rice, potatoes, and scallions. But that wouldn’t be fun at all.
A common obstacle that people complain about is that it is hard to change the way that you eat. I get it. It can be challenging. But habits can be changed one step at at time, and then it becomes way easier over time. You just gotta do it.
Another common misconception is that that healthy food is bland. It is definitely not. I would argue that food in the standard American diet is so oversaturated with sugar, salt, fat, and chemicals that our taste buds can no longer recognize real food anymore; this consequently makes people crave unhealthy, heavily processed food. If you think healthy food (the stuff that I eat) is bland, try changing your habits and eat super clean and healthy for an entire month. Fresh fruit will taste so much sweeter, while things like soda and Frappunccinos will start to taste like a gross sensory overload. Fatty, oily, and greasy food will taste gross too.
And finally, some people may think that the way I eat isn’t fun. I vehemently disagree. It IS fun. And sexy. Here’s a taste…
Amy @ Fivefeetsmall says
AWESOME post Doc! You’re on a roll post-baby! These were excellent tips and I found great value in the info provided. Also….your pantry is super swoon worthy (insert star-eyed emoji here).
drmcfrugal says
I’m glad you found the tips useful! And yes, we are very proud of our pantry 🙂
Cody @ Dollar Habits says
Your pantry is my wife’s dream! LOL. #pantrygoals
Lisa says
Dude, that pantry is #goals.
drmcfrugal says
Thanks for the love!
Angela @ Tread Lightly Retire Early says
6/$1 avocados??? Up here a super sale is 4/$5. Ha. Oh high cost of living areas…. and our 3 year old eats almost as much as an adult these days. I’m afraid for his teenage years.
drmcfrugal says
Oh my goodness! Yes, kids eat a lot. Once we start introducing foods to my baby girl, I’m sure she’ll eat a ton. In terms of avocados… we are very fortunate to live very close to local California avocado farms 🙂
Ms ZiYou says
Cool post, I think we’re kinda similar on the grocery budget – I just don’t think people realise cooking is not that hard to learn, and saves you loads of money in the long run.
drmcfrugal says
Yes! I totally agree. People don’t realize how easy it is to cook. For me, it gives me a sense of pride and independence knowing I don’t have to rely on a restaurant for food that tastes good to me. Plus, cooking can be a very fun way to exercise some creativity too! 🙂
the Budget Epicurean says
Shoot, did my comment not go through? Ugh… anyways, LOVE your pantry. Round of applause for all of this. Prescriptions for whole plant foods for everyone!
drmcfrugal says
Thank you so much! Before we made a lifestyle change and decluttered our life, our pantry was definitely not as beautiful as this. But small changes and building good habits makes a big difference. Our pantry appreciates the love! And yes, if I was able to prescribe whole plant foods for everyone, everybody would be healthier 🙂
Dr. MB says
Hi Dr. McFrugal,
Your pantry is very similar to mine. But we eat out a lot. My husband is a total foodie but I can eat sweet potatoes from my instant pot, beans and veggies.
During university, my food budget was 100/ mo. Now it’s insane but thankfully it’s our only large expense. 2018 will be the year I am even this down!
Awesome post!
drmcfrugal says
Thanks for checking out my post, Dr. MB! Nothing wrong with an insane food budget if you’re husband is a foodie and you both enjoy it– especially if it’s the only large expense. Food adds flavor to life 🙂
Erin | Reaching for FI says
That is the most beautiful pantry I’ve ever seen! And 6 for $1 avocados??!? That’s amazing!
drmcfrugal says
Thank you Erin! I appreciate the compliment! And yes, avocados 6 for $1 is an amazing deal. I suspect deals so good only happen in Southern California and when avocados are in season. We bought so many of them we were having avocados with every meal 🙂
6 Figure FIRE says
Such a solid, informative post. Our family tries to eat with the philosophy of, which I’ve seen from multiple sources so I can’t confirm the original source, “eat real food, mostly plants, not too much.”
Very excited to have found your blog. And congrats on the new addition!
drmcfrugal says
Hi, 6 Figure FIRE. Thanks for stopping by! I’m glad you found this post informative. I think your family has an excellent philosophy in eating food. I believe the original source of that quote is Michael Pollan.
And thanks for the congrats. Fatherhood is truly wonderful 🙂
Lily | The Frugal Gene says
I’m chugging water right now! Who made this?? This is good!
Ms ZiYou says
Your pantry is massive…………..so jealous here with my tiny (in comparison) UK house.
I love all your grains and pulses – people say I have loads, but I’m in the little league compared to your haul (and your epic jars – that all seem to match).
drmcfrugal says
Thank you! 😀
Cody @ Dollar Habits says
Love it! You guys have definitely got it dialed in. Also, I’ve been digging the WFPD truth bombs you’ve been dropping over in the comments on the MMM site. Keep spreading the good word, Sir.
drmcfrugal says
Hi Cody! Thanks for commenting! Yeah, I try my best to spread the good work in a positive manner 🙂
Adam @ Brewing FIRE says
Great post! Our family follows almost all of these guidelines. (We don’t normally make a grocery list because we are hyper-opportunistic and create meals from deals). My favorite tip is the discount foods at smaller markets. We call these ‘used foods’ and load up on them. It feels good to know that you’re saving produce that was going to be thrown out soon, and saving a ton of money at the same time!
How do you get your pantry so organized and de-cluttered? Where are you hiding the rest of the stuff!?!
drmcfrugal says
LOL! So many people ask about our pantry. I have been meaning to dedicate an entire post on it some time in the future. We aren’t hiding anything, that’s all the stuff we have 🙂
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Drplasticpicker says
What a great article! I’ll have to refer patients here. You should be a pediatrician!
Jane Karl says
No one asked about the recipe for the muffins. I would love to know how much of each ingredient. thank you.
drmcfrugal says
I was actually thinking of starting a recipe page in my site. Thanks for providing more motivation. 😀
drplastickpicker says
drmcgrufal. That would be so fantastic. There are so many folks trying to go vegan, and if you can show us how to without blowing the budget – that would help everyone. More fiber and whole fruits and vegetables, the better for the world and less plastic!!! Definitely would love to direct people to your page.
drplastickpicker says
This is the second time I’ve read this post. I am having pantry envy. I am going to tell Mr. Plastic Picker, I want to eat more like Dr. McFrugal. The health benefits must be amazing and kudos to the budget as well. Thank you for sharing this! So important!
drmcfrugal says
Yes! Try eating more whole food plant based meals. Maybe try a 30 day challenge. That’s what my wife and I did almost four years ago… and we haven’t stopped 😀
Rajesh Gupta says
Nice Article it’s really helpful
drmcfrugal says
Thanks
drmcfrugal says
Thank you, I appreciate it.